Nationally Recognized Marriage Expert Reveals...

"You Can Save Your Marriage...
Starting Today...Even If You Are The Only One Interested...With My 'Radical' Approach To Marital Rescue..."

This may be your last chance to save your marriage...Don't damage your relationship further by listening to 'amateur' advice...or dated, ineffective 'professional' advice...

	From: Lee Baucom, Ph.D. Author of Save The Marriage Press for a message from Lee.
Lee Baucom, Ph.D. is a consultant for Dateline NBC and has been featured in national magazines for his unique and effective approach to saving marriages.	What brought you to this page? Does thinking about your marriage cause you tension and anxiety? Are you tired of endless fights, anger and disappointment?

Lee Baucom, Ph.D.
Author Of Save The Marriage

From: Lee Baucom, Ph.D.

 

Let Me Tell You About Kelly and Greg...

When I first met Kelly, she and her husband, Greg, were literally driving to the attorney's office to sign their divorce papers when they decided to stop at my office!

They were ready to end their marriage of 14 years.

For some time...years actually...neither had been happy. There had been attempts to change, but things always fell apart.

It had been years since either Kelly or Greg felt good about their relationship.

In fact, for some time, they had stayed together just for the kids.

Does this sound familiar to you?

There was much sleeping on the couch and in the spare bedroom.

They were constantly battling over the smallest issue -- which only led to bigger issues.

Threats and yelling were an almost everyday thing.

They both desperately wanted to be accepted and loved, but neither felt it. The more each tried, it seemed the further they moved apart.

They had tried therapy, self-help books, seminars. But nothing seemed to make a difference.

It seemed as if they were stuck in a vicious cycle. They knew they needed to change things in their relationship...but they just didn't know how.

I'm not going to convince you that I was able to undo years of fighting, struggling and disappointment in a day. But, with what they learned in my office that day, they decided to put their impending divorce "on hold."

Within a few weeks, there was a dramatic transformation
in their marriage...

There were no angry arguments that went nowhere.

There was no "living like roommates" or sleeping on the couch.

There was No name-calling or tearing -down of each other.

Their, previously sexless, marriage saw sparks of true pleasure and intimacy again.

Last week, Kelly called to invite me to their anniversary
and "re-commitment" ceremony!

Most marriage therapists are not trained to be marriage counselors.

They receive their training in traditional, individual therapy, and add marital counseling to their practice... after the fact.

In other words, most marriage therapists have little expertise in helping a troubled marriage.

And, when they do offer marital counseling, they are, usually, applying outdated, ineffective strategies that were never intended to help truly troubled marriages.

This is why the best marriage counselors see a success rate of only 20%...if a medical procedure was that risky...it would be outlawed!

I know from experience, because I too was frustrated with such a low rate of success. I sincerely desired to help my clients to save their marriages. But, the techniques and strategies I learned in school seemed to be making things worse!

Once I realized that "traditional" methods of marriage therapy don't work, I determined to find and create strategies, techniques and methods that do work.

It led me to abandon much of the "old school" ideas about how to help troubled couples...and so should you!

Before you can begin your journey toward saving your marriage, you need to stop buying into The Four Most Damaging Myths About Saving Your Marriage.

Do you believe any of the following?

Anyone Is Capable of Transforming Their Relationship

Impossible as it may seem, I have created techniques which transform relationships... even when only one person is trying!

My typical client is a spouse that wants to save their relationship when their partner has already "given up."

Most therapists work from the assumption that, if only one person wanted to work on the relationship, it was impossible to fix.

I don't approach marriage crises this way. I approach them like an algebra equation. If one side of the equation is changed, the other side must change!

Incredibly, my clients have achieved a better-than-90% success rate...even if only one spouse starts the process!

With Kelly and Greg, it was Kelly who started the process. She found me on the internet , downloaded Save the Marriage and began the process of saving the marriage...by herself.

Greg was still bent on a divorce, but Kelly still had hope...and took action.

Fairly quickly, Greg was less insistent on the divorce, but still assumed it was their only option.

Eventually, He agreed to spend that hour with me, in person...leaving their divorce attorneys waiting.

You may be wondering. . ."When Is Saving The Marriage Impossible?"

I have witnessed relationships come back to life after affairs, bankruptcies, dishonesty, deception and mid-life crises, and just about any other roadblock.

Couple after couple have proven that it is possible to change a relationship and rescue, just about, any marriage from the edge of destruction.

These couples have not just avoided divorce. They have transformed the marriages into something wonderful...something better than they had dreamed possible.

Anatomy Of A Marital Crisis

No marriage crisis appears overnight.

Rather, the crisis builds slowly over time. One person is, usually, caught completely off-guard...not realizing there even was a problem. The other claims that he or she is tired of trying and trying...with no change...and has "given up."

You see, the real damage is done when one person needs and expects something to change, but the other person is preserving the exact same things. For example, there is often a desire for a shift in the power structure of the relationship, but one person resists making any change. The other person who wants the change becomes more and more frustrated.

This leads to a pattern where one spouse suddenly announces that the marriage is over, and the other spouse is unaware that there even was a problem.

If I had a dime for every time I was told, "I thought everything was fine, until my spouse asked for a divorce"...

Unfortunately, the "not knowing" has been translated into "not caring" by the dissatisfied partner and seems to provide proof (for someone looking for proof) that the marriage is over.

More marriages die from neglect than anything else. Often, it is simply a matter of life getting in the way. Strangely, something as important as marriage gets ignored. More than that, the relationship shifts from suffering with neglect to a growing animosity and antipathy.

On our wedding day, no one expects their marriage to fail.

And when people rate their priorities, their marital relationship always ranks in the top 3 or 4.

But, according to research, couples spend on average less than 4 minutes per day talking about issues that do not include schedules and the kids.

As neglect sets in, this lack of attention eats away at the relationship, slowly eroding the capacity of the couple to form a substantial relationship.

At this point... it is inevitable that issues will arise that create marital crisis...

The issue may be another person, a job change, a shift in life circumstances or stage. When it comes, one or the other feels the hopelessness of the situation, and moves to resolve the crisis by getting out of the marriage.

The Stages Of A Crisis

When the crisis is in full swing, it sometimes takes awhile for the other spouse to respond.

But, I discovered you can use actually this fact to create a path back to wholeness.

Too many other programs treat the way back to happiness as only one path.

I believe there are 8 distinct paths and each must be dealt with completely differently. What is helpful at one stage can be destructive, or at least counterproductive, at another stage.

I have created a unique and different path for each stage.

These paths have been tested and retested, and proven very successful for my clients. This is not "pie-in-the-sky" theory. It is tried, tested, and re-tested.

It is critical you know which stage you are in before you begin making changes.

It is entirely possible to do the right thing at the wrong time and cause more problems.

You need to know EXACTLY which stage of crisis you are facing. Only then, can you begin the healing process. Otherwise, it is probable you will inflict further damage on your relationship.

The innocent beginnings of a crisis (neglect, lack of understanding, etc.) can quickly spin into a crisis that puts the entire marriage at risk...

At this point, the trajectory of the relationship can become unpredictable.

But, the path back is predictable.

A marriage can fall apart in a million ways.

But, a marriage only recovers in one, predictable way...there is only one path back. The specific steps on that path may vary (depending on the stage) but the "way back" is the same.

This is the emphasis of my work...the path back.

I have isolated the path back from the verge of destruction...all of the way to full recovery of a marriage.

You can't just take the relationship back to "where it used to be." This is not enough.

Couples cannot simply get back to where they were when the marriage got in trouble. The marriage always had the beginnings of a crisis.

Instead, it needs to get to a place where the marriage is insulated against any future crisis.

Achieving an "average" marriage isn't enough...you want and need an exceptional marriage!

It's not just about avoiding divorce...it's about creating the marriage relationship of your secret dreams...

It's not enough to avoid divorce.

Who wants to be in a "mediocre" marriage relationship?

Most couples believe that their marital problems mean that they are destined to , at best, have an "okay" marriage.

This could not be further from the truth. You don't have to settle for anything less than the marriage relationship of your dreams!

In my experience, your current marriage crisis can be the catalyst for
"a new beginning" that will make your marriage
 stronger and better than it has ever been.

In fact, this is my true goal.

I won't feel satisfied unless as many couples as possible are experiencing everything that they always expected from marriage.

Recovery to average is not good enough.

I have helped hundreds of couples to rescue and transform their marriages and, I want to help thousands more to create exceptional marriages!

This is why I recently sat down and wrote a new book...

"Save The Marriage"

As I said earlier in this letter, I was shocked to see that there were so many (virtually) useless "save your marriage" guides offered online.

Unlike my book, most of these "guides" are written by ghost writers that are hiding behind a pretty picture. I am a "real, live" person that you can actually contact (see the bottom of this page).

And, the guides written by actual professionals are, for the most part, based on tired, old and ineffective "traditional" theories of counseling that only achieve 20% effectiveness...in person!

I felt as if I had to make available the unique, different and (most importantly) effective secrets that I had discovered in my practice.

My goal is to save as many marriages as possible.

Chances are, you probably not have the opportunity to visit me, in person.

But, I can still provide you with the information and the assistance you need to really start saving your marriage....through Save The Marriage.

Together, through Save The Marriage (and the included email consultation), we can save your marriage!

Save The Marriage will give you an understanding of what happened to your marriage, how to save it, and how to start creating the marriage of your dreams.

You will benefit from my, nearly, twenty years of working with clients, in person, and, literally, thousands of couples in various settings.

Don't expect hundreds of pages that just reiterate what everyone else has already said.

Instead, I have made the ideas and information readable and easily understood. No "psycho-babble" here, just the facts, ideas, and actions you need to save your marriage. In 170 pages, I will tell you what went wrong, what to do to change it, and how to do it.

Starting tonight... you can start saving your marriage and moving toward the marriage relationship you always dreamed about.

Can you imagine how wonderful it feel to, finally, eliminate the fear, anxiety and stress that currently envelopes you...and replace it with feelings of love, joy and contentment?

Imagine no more...because, with the secrets and strategies you will find in Save The Marriage, you will be solidly on the path from marital frustration to marital bliss!

Don't take my word for it...

A small sample of what others have said about this book...

Just Some Of What You'll Discover...

The Top 5 Mistakes people make when a crisis arises.

The "real"  secrets to a healthy, stable, loving marriage.

How to assess the stage of your crisis (there are 8).

How to address any stage of a crisis and turn it around.

What to do, what to say, and what to avoid in order to save your marriage!

Why "hard work" on the relationship isn't always the answer.

How marriage counseling can be dangerous to your marriage's future.

Why "low mood therapy" is destined for failure and how "high mood relating" makes the difference.

How to move beyond emotions and take action!

How to find the North Star of your relationship, and why it matters.

Why true intimacy is a lot closer than you think--and how to get there!

What "the TIE Elements of Communication" are, and how they can transform your communication.

How to change the momentum of a relationship, sometimes instantaneously!

What the Practices of Marriage are, and how they can transform your relationship.

Why arguing is a waste of time -- and the amazingly simple secret to get around it.

How to become a team, even if you feel like opposites.

Why power is so destructive to relationships and how to change it.

How to deal with problems involving sex or money.

How to make paradigm shifts (literally, quantum leaps!) in the relationship.

Much, much more about how to transform your relationship.

In short, how to have the marriage of your dreams .
 

Here's my offer: 

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This book has been described as one of the most radical and important sources of relationship saving strategies and techniques ever written.

Whether you are simply frustrated and disappointed...or on the verge of divorce...this proven information will help you to turn things around...quickly and easily.

What you have seen in this letter is only a small fraction of what you will find in this book.

Plus, to give you every possible reason to take action and discover the secrets in this book, I am going to also give you 4 Additional Bonuses Guaranteed to Make A Huge Impact On Your Marriage...

Because this book is only offered in an electronic, e-book format, you can begin your journey of marital happiness and fulfillment immediately...even if it's 2 AM in the morning! Plus, you never have to worry about facing the lady at the register in the book store. Your purchase is in total privacy and your personal copy of this powerful book will be downloaded to your computer in less than 2 minutes!

And, because you don't have to pay for printing or shipping, I can charge you significantly less than I would for a "hard copy" version of this book

Your total (no hidden charges) investment in the future of your marriage is only $49.97!

Plus...

	Bonus 1: Free Email Consultation ($95.00 Value) My standard rates for counseling are $200 per hour. Standard email consults are $95.00 For a limited time, I am including a FREE email consultation. Every marriage situation is different. This email consultation will give you the ability to "put it all together." After reading Save The Marriage, you will have the opportunity to ask me, specifically, any questions that you may have.

Bonus 2: The 'Quick-Start Guide To Saving Your Marriage' Report I have taken my Stage Of Crisis Diagnosis and converted it into a very powerful report that will help you to establish EXACTLY which stage of crisis your marriage is currently in. It will then prescribe a path to recovery based on that particular stage. This report will make your efforts immediately effective!

	Bonus 3: The 'Top Five Things NOT To Do When Your Partner Wants Out' Report If your partner has told you that they "want out," you must read this report! Your "natural" reactions during this critical stage of your marriage crisis are, usually, wrong. This report will help you to avoid the top 5 mistakes that most people make in this situation. Making the wrong decision during this stage could make things worse...much worse!

	Bonus 4: The 'Dealing With Anger And Resentment' Report   This report is cutting-edge information about the origins of anger (not what you think), and what to do about it. I have covered how to deal with your own anger and resentment. But, more importantly, how to deal with your spouse's anger. This  report will provide you with tools to use in dealing with two emotions that absolutely eat away at the foundations of your marriage.

These bonuses are only being offered for a very limited time. So, be sure to order so that you are certain to get both the book and the bonuses (including a free email consultation)!

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